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D.Corr – Radio Café

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It was a cold night in LES. Sometime last year during one of the more brutal winters I have ever experienced in NYC. I stood on the street outside of Rochelle’s waiting for a taxi to head back to Harlem. It was raining, so I was under my umbrella. Rain boots, long dark peacoat, black cashmere hat, black wool gloves. It was frigid, and so to pass the time I began doing that thing we do when it’s cold out. You know, where you start thinking of warm places and things to see if your mind is capable of tricking your body. I began thinking of that time we were in Fiji, you and I. As I recalled the first night we spend there, my body began heating up. I couldn’t believe that it was actually working.

My taxi showed up and as it drove me back Uptown I decided to continue to stay in those memories. I remembered going down the giant pool slide together, off of the yacht and into the ocean. I remember the way you looked back at me with that flawless smile. A gorgeous reflection of the sky in your aviators. Your lips magnified in this memory as they approached mines and then we landed underwater. Lips still locked, hands all over one another.

It was the actual photo by Remington Long (see above) that inspired this one. The music is the bonus.

I love the Lo-fi sound of D.Corr‘s vocals on this. It’s what brought on the actual memory above of me remembering that memory. I guess it’s the same Lo-fi sound from my childhood. The way really old songs sounded coming out of car radios and Diner jukeboxes that instantly retracted my mind into the past. It’s beautiful how sounds and scents can take us back in time so seamlessly like that.

Radio Café is a tune built on awesome energy that traverses over any possible language barrier because it’s all about vibe instead, so enjoy it.

a Weekend Playlist

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I can’t be responsible for your happiness when I have no idea what makes you sad. Even still, I don’t want to be responsible for your happiness because right now I have my own to worry about.

I know that sounds like a selfish thing to say, but I say it because I can. And I can say it because I have my own shit that I’m going through. Just because I don’t brood around about it all day and show you my sourpuss face, does not mean that I don’t have negative things happening in my life. So like I just said, ‘I, don’t want to be responsible for YOUR happiness, right now.’ 

A large part of existing in this life is measured by moments, but it’s those moments that you are out there living in-the-now that mean anything. It is those moments that are actually being lived, never relived. See, if you are reliving a moment then you are only watching a recording of a previous moment, and are doing absolutely nothing else, in the now.

Stay focused.

If you need your time to sulk, brood, cry, then that’s what you should do. Don’t go out and do it in front of others. It isn’t fair to their moments; to their time and energy.

Here’s a little weekend mix to help you do whatever it is you want do today. Maybe you do just want to sit at home in bed with your laptop and just stay connected all day. Maybe you’re heading out to brunch with the crew and hit this as you get dressed. Maybe you’re headed out for a run in Central Park or at Runyon. And maybe, you hit play just because.

Joni Payne – Contemporary Love

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Moments without breath won’t leave. Seconds of despair that feel like days won’t disappear. In between, we will be surprised and blessed with flashes of real love. We will experience moments of light and moments with too much oxygen. We will live through hope, and then the sun will go down in order for it to come back tomorrow.

Moments of sadness might embrace you as if they will never let you go. So tight; so abrupt. Seconds of grim thoughts will inundate your mind, clogging your dreams, but in between life will give you what you ask of it. It will give you laughter from genuine tears like a sunshower, and it will give you hours of warm embraces made to feel like home.

We will trade one love for another. We will learn how to truly love during that process. We will eventually love something other than ourselves unconditionally, even though most of us genuinely believe that we already have because we have experienced that despair and those short breaths I just spoke about, while being in love. We will learn to let go of the past. We will learn to trim the fat around us.

My son was born on the same exact day as my ex wife. He became the best escape from that past for me. It was like God gave me a whole new love to replace the one that was taken. As if to let me know that he will always give me what I need even when I don’t think that there is anything else I could, need.

Life will somehow correct itself, so don’t worry. The most exciting parts are the ones we least expect. That’s why it is so important to go out and do things you have never done. Meet people you have never seen. Listen to stories you have never heard. Life corrects itself, somehow, so it is important to live it full throttle, even when your heart is struggling to keep pace.

HONNE – Gone Are The Days

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I’ve been slowly making the transition to lossless audio. Flac, Lossless compression or whatever else you want to refer to it as. In order to do that I’ve had to upgrade all the hardware that I’m listening to my music on, as well as devices. I’m finding out the hard way that even with all of these modifications they mean nothing if the music isn’t available in great quality.

If you listen to something on the Tidal streaming service like Jadakiss‘s latest album: “Top 5 Dead Or Alive”, it’s a sonic mess. Every song is mastered differently, so there’s zero cohesiveness in sound levels and vibe. The mixes are mediocre, at best, and the better sounds only really shine on the track titled Jason. I would have preferred 10 solidly produced and mixed songs over 18 mixtape-quality tracks. It would have made my listening experience better and the production might have commanded better sounds all around, and better mixes.

Chief music critic for the LA Times, Mark Swed says: 

The justification for MP3 compression is that the ear can be tricked through psycho-acoustics. I can attest to that. As a student, I had a friend who was an organist, and I would walk by the chapel on campus and listen for the organ to see if she was there. Time and again, I thought I heard the sound of organ pipes faintly in the distance, but when I peeked in, the organ loft would be empty. It turned out that a nearby hissing steam generator produced white noise containing all frequencies and that my ear picked out the organ frequencies I had been listening for.

Something similar occurs when you compare the newly remastered recordings on MP3 and hi-res. There is too little there with severe compression. Missing is the palpable sonic presence to draw a listener in. Suitable for background, the shallow MP3 encourages grazing and has undoubtedly contributed to the shortening of musical attention spans.

Mark uses Qobuz to get his HiFi sound. I, as of today, am using Tidal. Either way that experience is pointless without better quality from the artists.

And then I go through the submissions pile of music we get sent, and I find a great tune like “Gone Are The Days” by HONNE. The vibe, the groove and the energy of it are all awesome. They are perfect in all the various facets and categories that one could come up with. I only wish that I could listen to something that sounded as if I were sitting right in front of them during a rehearsal rather than feel like I’m listening it through a radio station from a boom box back in the early 90’s. I want those transients blowing passed my shoulders rather than being skimped of them all around. Compression is a motherfucker.

Still, “Gone Are The Days” is a smash hit. It’s good music that features beautiful vocals and great composition. The catchiness of the bassline, the melody, it’s harmonies and the most repetitive set of lyrics found in the song make it gold. If only it had the production value that all the new Adele music has behind it, it would make it timeless.

free your mind,
help you lose control.”

BASECAMP – Emmanual (Stwo Remix)

I guess I never asked you to come with me.”

I was talking to my Dad last night about moving back to America and he was reminding me of the freedom I have with my situation. No kids. Not scared to move to new places. Ability to fund myself. At a place where I don’t call for money, I can now call for insights and advice from my parents. No furniture other than the IKEA stuff that I can leave behind. No kids.

But, I have been with someone for a long time. I met him three weeks after moving to LA years ago and then made it a goal to finally move to London where we met, and I wanted to be since I was 11. It was a relationship built on what we were willing to sacrifice to be with the other. 2AM Skype calls. Expensive tickets. Loopholes in the system to stay bits longer. Align business travel with rendezvous as often as we can. It was a a relationship held together by simple twists of fate.

Midstep, mind changed
Heart hurt and chest pains
Mouth moved, but no sound
We’d gave up our ground
Caught it too late now
We’re moving on
The cards have been laid down
We’re moving”

How long do you keep fighting? Keep doing whatever you can? Something Dad said hit me. “When do you stop fighting for it and get to enjoy it?” I couldn’t answer that question. I have always been fighting for it. The familiar feeling of anxiety when we separated. Like my lungs couldn’t get enough oxygen until I saw him again. Like my vision turned to black and the only thing that made me calm again was seeing him, even if just at our rendezvous somewhere, anywhere for two days. I would plan our next meeting each last day we had.

And I try to hold back
The hundreds of things I have wanted to ask
And I want it so bad (so bad, so bad)
Yeah, I want it so bad”

When I realised I needed to go back, this whole experience now feels like my life was on pause, like I was prolonging the inevitable. Perhaps it was idealistic to think this was anything more than it was. It was a riptide from under our feet, the pulls of reality, of our aspirations – realising that perhaps we were only meant to run perpendicular, no parallel, that our lives wouldn’t allow for anything else.

Chin up, chest out
Feet set, no doubts
You came and you went
Our time was so ill spent”

Perhaps there comes a point when fighting to keep something from falling apart is time we should have spent building something new. Perhaps I should have asked you to come with me and see if you were willing to fight like I did.

This track, the instrumental at the end, all of this makes so much sense to me. The music transcends you in to a feeling euphoria and acceptance. The lyrics reminiscent of the few seconds after you said what you need, but before you turn to walk away.

Model Man – Autumn Thieves

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I’m sitting here at a Starbuck’s in sunny California, fresh from getting a new haircut and sad because I had to leave my son behind today. Life’s got me on-the-go yet again—something I guess I’m still not used to. There’s a feeling whenever uncertainty lurks on the shorelines nearby of hopelessness that lingers. At times, that feeling takes over my complete being for a few seconds. It’s almost like that scene in The Matrix where Neo is being taken over by liquid metal, after taking the pill, and is almost drowned by it. Lucky for me, just like in the film, it only lasts mere seconds, and then all hope and positivity come bouncing back into my entire body, and life is beautiful yet again.

But it’s those few seconds of despair that have the biggest impact on me these days. They make me stronger rather than weaker, and they show me that I still have a lot of growth and repairing to do within me if I want to be the best dad ever.

I want to give my son what I didn’t have. I don’t want him going to school feeling sad or getting bullied about not having a dope dad, or not having a dad at all. I want the very best for him, so it was that struggle right there that had me compromising parts of me that I know did not need any help because I had already taken the time out to fix those. Still, I compromised and moved with his mom out here against my better judgement. When two people can be explosive around and towards one another as just friends, imagine what happens when you toss a baby in the mix and decide to cohabit together… Yea. Fire fucking works, to say the least. And then comes the period of reflection where I ask myself how I even got into another explosive bout with her, and that’s when it kicks in that I still have all this growth to do because had I been where I need to be with myself, then I wouldn’t have allowed her words or actions or jabs bother me in the least. I would have and should have brushed it all off as just more noise, especially if I’m trying to teach my son to be the best version of me and her, and the best human he could possibly be.

Leading by example is the only way to redemption. I know now that her and I don’t have to share a bedroom or a roof to be great parents. She’s a really awesome mom. I only hope that she looks at me as a really awesome dad, but even if she doesn’t today, her and him will because the only way to being dope is to, be, dope.

Autumn Thieves by Model Man is apparently a good tune for a Monday reflection session. It’s something you can throw on and work your problems away through. Maybe it’s those piano strokes or just the overall mood of it. Who knows? All I know is that the road ahead of me is somewhat paved, meaning that I know exactly what I have to do and who I have to become. I’m getting there. I am definitely getting there.

AMTRAC – Darkest Sound

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Most of the time our darkest hours are the ones we spend our days and nights anticipating. We forget that we have all the control over the courses of our lives and our futures. Rather than project positivity we brood in all the negative shit that’s happening in our lives, ultimately creating our problems by making them a reality. We do this when we’re not happy about the way something has turned out, but rather than pinpoint all the positive things that surround us we begin embracing and amplifying the negative. It’s like we make a quick list in our heads and immediately just start jotting down all the bad stuff, completely forgetting the good. We also seem to forget that there is bad in almost everything, if you look for it.

That cold or flu that you just got out of nowhere this weekend—you brought that on yourself, believe it or not. It was your mind taking the exhaustions of the negative listings in some other aspect of your life that left itself open for something else to come in and take it over. One mention of a cold or a flu by someone near you or even just on TV, and your mind began working away at creating it. Don’t fail to remember that a cold can’t be caught by running in the rain all day because it is after all a virus, right? Or is it?

My point today is to start changing the way your mind works. Start listing all the good, positive and beautiful things in your life from the moment you wake up in the morning tomorrow even if you do happen to be sick at home with a cold or a flu. The less attention you give that cold or flu the less it will affect you. Haven’t you ever noticed that while you’re eating or having sex the symptoms to these things are nowhere to be found?

Am I saying that we can actually avoid getting sick this winter season? Yes. I am also saying that we can avoid everything negative from now on simply by learning where to point our minds to. With practice, it becomes seamless, like breathing. Start with small things and small lists and jot down only the positive. I mean, you know all the negative shit that’s there and exists already, so why continue to relive it anyway?

Play this AMTRAC tune and start living positively.

Sorbmal – To The Moon

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Here’s something totally not like anything else you’re going to hear today. Adele’s 25 is a masterpiece, yes, but in reality it’s the same shit over and over again. That’s not to say that I didn’t cop my copy of it from itunes just now, but music is becoming like Hollywood in the sense that all we get are recycled concepts of versions of past hits. Everyone is so afraid to go left that the world is following one another in a straight line going right, even if that line leads all of us to the edge of a cliff. Think about how many versions of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles the movie world has put out; the countless actors that have played Batman, The Joker, Spidey or the Man of Steel, and it’s exactly what we are being sold in music today. Broken hearts, empowered teenagers, shoot em up, bang! bang! bang.

In dire need of something completely out of this world, I came across this funky four minute and eighteen second instrumental title “To The Moon” by SorbmalI’m not gonna lie to you either, the artwork definitely helped me decide on this tune over another because it was so simple and non-cheesy; no big letters or “cool” fonts over it. Sometimes that’s all I want. Something simple. Something good to listen to or easy to stare at.

This little guitar ride flips so many times that it’s hard to pinpoint one specific genre for it. To me, it’s like listening to the RZA trying to come up with the Wu Tang Clan’s next smash hit single, here today, in the space age. It’s sort of like watching a Tarantino flick on fast forward, and I fucking dig the shit out of it. So, if you’re ready to listen to something funky on this Friday, then hit play and rock it. At the very least your ears will get a break from all the whining and heartbreak you’ll be listening to this weekend.

Fine Print – Snakes

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the more we try,
the more it seems to be in vain.”

I find myself tossing old pieces of me away every time I move from one place to another. Little mementos of a life that used to be that no longer hold any value for me besides sentiment. Sometimes, something inside me feels bad for throwing these items out. Old photos of people I will most likely never see again in this life; old items of clothing that someone, some time ago gifted to me and their scents are long gone from. Then I think about what the possibilities of them remembering these items they gave me are and all that guilt heads out the door.

I’m in a somber mood today. A part of me knowing that this is how things should have always been, and another part of me wishing that the dream could have become a reality. White picket fence, baby running around barefoot, nighttime walks on the beach, just the three of us and eventually a puppy.

Where love never existed love cannot be lost.

I’ve always felt love rather than heard it. I’ve always listened to heartbeats rather than empty words, so I’ve always known what true and real love looks like. Fights only happen when someone doesn’t want to be in the mix and they don’t know how to communicate that. Lack of words, lack of vocabulary. Lack of expression. I don’t pretend to know why, I just know the result because I can spot it before it occurs.

I find myself wondering what old pieces of me I will toss in the garbage within the next few days and which ones I will hold onto. I wonder if Ashley is going through this too out there in London.

One door closes and sometimes a backdoor opens up within the matrix. A backdoor opened up and I will go through it here in LA next week, right before I take off back east. It’s a backdoor that I walked through once before, full of real and true love.

So maybe this was all meant to happen this way. Maybe, just maybe, this is how it all was supposed to be.

Don’t be fooled by what they do for you.”

Hidden Charms – Love You Cause You’re There

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Cruising down the boulevard on the side of Venice Beach, I can’t see the beauty of California anymore. Maybe it’s because the sun is down. Maybe it’s simply because I just don’t belong here. I see tweakers scurrying like roaches whenever a light approaches them on the boardwalk. Vatos looking suspicious because who knows what they’re doing or into, and then there’s a certain grungy scent of sunbathed vagabonds who haven’t bathed with any actual soap in months. I notice that the people are slower, more involved in the trivial parts of America than they are in self-growth; more involved in yesterday than today or tomorrow. I don’t belong here.

Sunday afternoon I met Troy for Matt’s birthday party at Open Air at La Cienega. That scene was it. Hot girls at every inch of that space, bottomless mimosas and a DJ who knew exactly what to spin based on the types of people he saw in the crowd. That moment was rare for me these days as I haven’t gotten out much at all. That day we helped break up one fight and then that night I got into another one. When will I learn to stop making stupid mistakes based on alcohol? It’s a redundancy that I am fed up with. A cycle that I have committed to put an end to.

It was that night that I got to see a darker side of LA than I have ever seen before, and within that darkness that I got to feel that anxiety one does when they can’t wait to go home after a long day of work and the clock still only reads 2:30pm. “Home”, now there’s a word that is tossed around much too frequently; a word that not a lot of people use properly. I no longer felt like I was at home. To be honest, I have never felt that way while in LA. I don’t know why. I can’t call it. All I know is that I saw things and heard people’s stories about how they ended up in LA, and as I write this I’m packing my bags to head back East. It’s just not for me. It’s not how I want to raise my son.

Sure. We have rats and roaches in NYC. We have crackheads over there too, and heroin addicts and stoners and thieves as well, but for some odd reason or the other we still seem more sensible about life; less “in-the-clouds” than most of the people here; less daydreaming and more living. I wouldn’t trade that in the world for anything. Yes, we daydream too in NYC, but for the most part we’re out there getting it; out there making shit happen, all the damn time.

You go to NYC to “make it”, and you come to LA once you’ve made it and can afford to live comfortably. From what I’ve experienced, most of the people that have come to LA expecting to “make it” have lost themselves within their very own daydreams. Lost inside their ten thousandth idea. Lost within the perfectly beautiful blue sky and the flawless beaches. I think that right there is the actual problem and I don’t care for it. I need that cold slap to the face from mother nature once in a while to let me know what time of the year it is. It’s too easy to get lost in LA. Way too easy, and I don’t want that for my kin.

This Hidden Charms tune just speaks to me that way. It’s me taking a midnight drive through Venice Beach with the glare of streetlights peaking in through the car windows and cigarette smoke escaping the cracks in them. A last wave goodbye to the land of beautiful dreamers.