Sometimes a song just says it all for you:
Well, if you’re looking for somewhere to leave your footprints,
Please look to the ground, my dear.
And if you’re hoping for something,
To walk all over,
Please, go elsewhere, not here.And I just want to, know,
where you stand.
Cause I swear, it,
Feels like you’re still standing here.And I just want to, know,
Where you stand.
And hopefully, it’s not,
On my heart.
Yea, hopefully, it’s not,
On My heart.
Hopefully, it’s not,
On my heart, heart, heartWell, if you’re searching for, a new, stomping ground
Then, this ain’t the place for you to dwell.
And, if you’re wanting to, hold on to something
Well, you had my heart and it fell.And I just want to, know,
where you stand.
Cause I swear, it,
Feels like you’re still standing here.And I just want to, know,
Where you stand.
And hopefully, it’s not,
On my heart.
Yea, hopefully, it’s not,
On My heart.
Hopefully, it’s not,
On my heart, heart, heart.
That goes out to everyone hoping that the person they have in their hearts will someday be all theirs. To the ones that don’t give anyone else a chance because of that brattish behavior and ideal. If love was blind, then you are allowing fear to keep you continuously living in misery.
The best parts of life are the ones we can discover new things with and in. We are so complex and so intricate that remaining stagnant in one place or relationship only leads to more misery. It’s time to stop asking others: “Where They Stand” or waiting for them to tell or show you someday, because it isn’t coming. If it were, it would have already.
Happiness is just outside your door. Go out there and find it during lunch. Maybe do something different After Work today and go to a Happy Hour by yourself just to check if you find a cool new place. Meet and talk to strangers. Return smiles and give more than one-worded answers to questions asked. Train for that marathon. Go to that spin class. Start a Friday Night Wine Club. Breathe in the fact that you are living a life most people only get to see on movie theater and laptop screens. Kiss often. Kiss passionately.